All the times he did get sex are marked with italics.
This is it. This is pretty much the pentacle of male privilege in the U.S. When a husband whole heartedly believes that he is a victim to unfair treatment by his wife because she denied him sex 26 times in a month.
When a man think his pleasures is more important than a women NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX and since they are married he has every right to her body and by denying him access to her body she is denying him said right.
He thinks her “excuses” for having sex are also unreasonable. And what are some of those “excuses”?
-She was too tired to have sex.
-She was sick.
-She was too drunk.
-She felt tender (in vaginal region) after having sex the other day.
-They didn’t have enough time because they had somewhere to be. (Which means he was fully prepared to have enough time to get himself off INSIDE his wife while knowing they wouldn’t have enough time for her pleasure)
These are all unreasonable “excuses”
I saw the Reddit thread, and most people were siding with him because she was committing the unacceptable crime of not having sex with him, and even among those who were more sympathetic were starting with ”he did it in an immature way…BUT” and it’s just so depressing how much people hate women that are not ”fulfilling their purpose” of being fucked by men.
The comments on the Buzzfeed link are full of women defending the guy.
It makes me so fucking sick.
I’m not defending the guy because making a spreadsheet is a bit fucking weird. However, looking at the reasons she gave, it seems to me that he’s less annoyed about the lack of sex and more the fact she’s giving every reason under the sun for not sleeping with him (including lying), instead of sitting down and talking with him about the real problem as to why she does not want sex. Sex is a healthy part of relationships, so yeah. If she’s constantly saying no and then lying as to why, I don’t blame him for getting pissy with her. I mean, he sent her the spreadsheet and then cut all contact with her. That suggests much deeper relationship issues than just ‘entitled male wants sex.’